Speaking generally, consistency matters more than intensity here — others here may have had a different experience. Why are so many popular online dating sites getting rid of their desktop versions?
From what I have seen, the profiles that stall are usually the ones trying hardest to impress — nobody tells you this at the start.
From my side, an either/or question gets answered more often than an open invitation — that is roughly where I landed after a lot of trial and error.
- Always never used my main debit card on a platform I had just found, and it saved me a lot of grief
- A bad week is a bad week, not evidence about the platform — that is roughly where I landed after a lot of trial and error.
- Genuine moderation
- For what it is worth, a bad week is a bad week, not evidence about the platform — that has been consistent for me across a few different platforms.
From what I have seen, comparing your results to anyone else's is a losing game — small thing, but it adds up.