Honestly, the people posting about success are a tiny and unrepresentative sample — happy to be argued with on that one.
From my side, nobody's experience generalises, including mine — that is the bit I would tell anyone signing up today.
Having tried a few, treating it as a numbers game is the fastest route to burning out — that is the bit I would tell anyone signing up today.
- Without fail I left when something felt off instead of talking myself out of it, and it saved me a lot of grief
- Kept a throwaway address for any site I was only testing, and I would do it again
- Never used my main debit card on a platform I had just found
- Always matched the other person's message length instead of writing essays, which cut the noise dramatically
- Something I learned the hard way — I checked whether support answered before becoming a paying customer, every single time
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