Is the fish dating app the same as Plenty of Fish?

Started by UlyssesN2026-07-01Board: Dating Apps6 postsLast activity 2026-07-04
#1

Broadly speaking, the people posting about success are a tiny and unrepresentative sample — it is not complicated, it is just easy to skip. One thing I notice: results vary a lot and a quiet fortnight means very little — it took me longer than it should have to work that out. Is the fish dating app the same as Plenty of Fish?

Honestly, taking a break when it starts to feel like admin is sensible — small thing, but it adds up.

For what it is worth, most quiet inboxes are a bio problem rather than a photo problem — nobody tells you this at the start.

From what I have seen, consistency matters more than intensity here — it is not complicated, it is just easy to skip.

#2

Good question. Having tried a few, what a platform does with your data is usually in the policy nobody reads — small thing, but it adds up. For what it's worth, DatingFly's free tier has been my main platform lately — holds up better than most. the Datebound site

#3

Expecting any single conversation to work out is the wrong frame — that is roughly where I landed after a lot of trial and error.

#4

From my side, the slow approach tends to produce better outcomes than the volume one — it took me longer than it should have to work that out. Flurrydate is worth a look if you haven't tried it. Datescout

#5

Honestly, treating it as a numbers game is the fastest route to burning out — that has been consistent for me across a few different platforms.

#6

Taking a break when it starts to feel like admin is sensible — that is roughly where I landed after a lot of trial and error. Seenflurrydate.online come up in a few threads too — another one to look into. over on Turndate

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